Apart from her cool appearance and unique musical talent, the star second generation Dou Jingtong, who sparkles in the spotlight, may hide a small world that longs for attention and understanding.
A few days ago, Miss Dou Jingtong suddenly posted a "blockbuster" on her personal social media, accompanied by a tearful photo, asking the question that worried countless netizens: "does anyone really care about me?"
You know, the "music princess" under the aura of Faye Wong and Dou is usually a typical "cold-faced comedian", giving people the impression of being calm and independent.
However, this late-night post makes people wonder whether there is a weak side under Dou Jingtong's seemingly hard shell.
It is said that although Dou Jingtong is wearing the dazzling halo of her superstar parents, she is not a little princess living in a fairy tale world after all.
When the outside world is still envious that she was born into a musical family, how many people can really understand the hidden pain brought about by the breakdown of her family and the divorce of her parents?
This is the wound hidden behind the star label, like a pearl wrapped in gravel, only she knows the truth of the pain.
In the early hours of this morning, Dou Jingtong is like a wounded little animal, whispering to himself in the virtual world. She shared her loneliness and confusion and talked about her inner contradictions and fears in the face of the hustle and bustle of the outside world.
Even in prosperity, it feels like standing in the middle of an empty stage, quietly giving, waiting for a response, looking forward to even a warm hug moment, but the reality is silent.
Such a monologue, like a sharp sword, pierced everyone's inherent perception of her "strength", and also let the public see a true self who longed for love and fear of being ignored.
Looking back on Dou Jingtong's growing up, it can be said that it is a family drama full of drama.
At that time, the divorce between Faye Wong and Dou Wei was in an uproar, and all kinds of accusations and responses were like swords and swords, all of which happened in front of the young Dou Jingtong, leaving her a lingering psychological shadow.
Mother Faye Wong's career is in full swing, and although she is known as a "music legend", companionship is particularly scarce when Dou Jingtong was growing up. Dou Jingtong lives more with his grandmother. Although there is a deep affection between grandparents and grandchildren, the lack of fatherly love and maternal love is always an irreparable emotional gap.
Along the way, Dou Jingtong has a flamboyant and unique personality, from hairstyle to clothing, from hobbies to academic choices, all reflecting a rebellious but true self-expression.
In particular, she resolutely bid farewell to the Berkeley Conservatory of Music, this courage and the pursuit of freedom, I am afraid that many people will be secretly surprised.
When we see her tearful words in the middle of the night, we have to re-examine the seemingly rebellious behavior, which may be her desperate desire for love and her struggle in the process of finding self-identity.
When Dou Jingtong called for concern in the middle of the night, the news reported the sweet reunion of Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse. This comparison has triggered a heated debate among netizens: as a mother, whether Faye Wong's choice is reasonable.
How to strike a balance between affection and love? Especially at the critical moment when children are facing emotional troubles, should parents put aside their emotional troubles and give their children the support and companionship they need most?
Dou Jingtong's late-night question undoubtedly sounded the alarm in the hearts of every one of us-whether celebrities or ordinary people, each individual has its own internal emotional needs.
For Dou Jingtong, she has chosen to live independently at the age of 22, but her sentence "who really cares about me" makes us realize that no matter how maverick she is, she is still a child who yearns for the warmth of her family.
Dou Jingtong cried late at night and tore off Faye Wong's fig leaf! Her companionship and understanding of her children is really far from satisfactory.
I don't know. What do you think of this?