At the beginning of a man, nature is good.
Including the education we've been receiving.
It's also about being kind and simple.
But does it mean that we have to show the good side of human nature in front of everyone?
Obviously not!
01
There is such a saying in the square:
If a person is too honest, he will be bullied!
What is an honest man?
In fact, it is too kind and does not have its own principles and bottom line.
When others trample on you, your choice is not to resist, but to be patient
Excessive kindness will make the wicked want to bully you more and more, thus causing tragedy!
Brother Zhu Zhiwen in big clothes is a good example.
02
Zhu Zhiwen, an ordinary farmer in Zhu Lou Village, Guocun Town, Dan County, Heze County, Shandong Province
With a good voice, it is popular all over the country.
Like other farmers.
Zhu Zhiwen is kind-hearted, his face is always cheerful, and he seldom has a bad face
After he became famous, Zhu Zhiwen borrowed a lot of money.
I thought the villagers would appreciate his kindness.
The result is:
In the eyes of the villagers, brother Da Yi is a cash cow.
It's impossible to spend so much money. I borrowed it just to help him spend it.
It is precisely with this kind of strange thinking.
As a result, more than a decade has passed.
Brother Da Yi still has more than one million to come back.
03
Around 2016, Big Yi opened the door wide to welcome fans and villagers.
It was originally a good thing for win-win cooperation, but it turned out to be a nightmare for him and his family.
Why do we say win-win cooperation?
It's very simple. Villagers can make money by shooting short videos.
Brother Da Yi can gain popularity and raise his price and the number of performances with a short video.
This has been going on for several years.
The villagers and fans did not touch the bottom line of Big coat.
But with the rapid development of the new media era
This thing has completely changed!
04
Now, almost every day
Outsiders appeared in Zhulou village, and from the beginning, other villages and towns in Heze
To other cities in Shandong, and then to the present, all over the country.
When there are too many people
Anything can happen.
People who expect to shoot Brother Big clothes will not see Brother Big clothes.
started breaking into his house.
Some kicked the door, some climbed over the wall, and some tried to drill in while the sister-in-law opened the door.
Once these people enter the door, they will not come out easily.
05
Recently
There are a lot of uninvited guests in front of brother Yi's house.
They are not here to shoot a short video, but to ask Brother Da Yi for help.
In the past, people used to borrow money with gifts and be polite.
Nowadays, people borrow money, bring nothing, and have a very tough attitude.
These people who ask for help are not young people, but middle-aged and old people, most of whom are in their seventies or eighties
There are a variety of reasons:
Sick, no money to see a doctor
If the child is going to get married, the family can't afford the bride price.
Failed to start a business, I hope Brother Da Yi can give some money to make a comeback.
It is worth mentioning that these people do not want three melons and two dates, often hundreds of thousands, millions of dollars.
Give people the impression is: this is not to ask for help, but to ask for help!
06
Most people face this kind of situation.
For the first time, he was gentle, saying that he would not borrow it or did not have it.
If you have more times, you will choose to call the police or turn to conquest.
Because they have no responsibility and obligation to help poor people.
Brother Da Yi, he has never taken any measures to allow this situation to develop.
Just recently, the sister-in-law of the coat was targeted by the old man who borrowed money as soon as she walked out of the alley.
Say, "you must give me 1 million, or I won't go."
Sister-in-law didn't say anything.
Get up and leave.
It can be seen that the sister-in-law is used to this kind of life, and the only thing she can do is to "ignore it."
If a person does not commit a crime, I will not be a prisoner. If a person commits an offence, I will be a prisoner.
This is our attitude when facing the villain.
Brother Da Yi doesn't want to offend passers-by. We can understand.
But if you blindly put up with it, it will only make your family's life miserable.