Marriage does not depend on two people falling in love to grow old together.
But also to face each other's family, into each other's family, mother-in-law relationship in marriage, but also plays a vital role.
Chen Songling and Zhang duo, who have been married for 12 years, can be said to be the benchmark for celebrity couples.
Looking at them so much in love, they also have an unsolvable marriage problem of the century, that is, Chen Songling and her mother-in-law do not get along well with each other.
Chen Songling was born into a wealthy family in Hong Kong.
Because of his love of literature and art since childhood, he participated in the TVB singing competition at the age of 15, won the championship and got the chance to make a smooth debut.
She has a clear plan for her career, works hard in the complex entertainment industry, and has made remarkable achievements, which is not easy.
Such an excellent woman should have had a better life.
But did not expect that she will suffer from ovarian cancer, dragging her into the dark abyss.
Although she actively treated, she was destined to lose her qualification as a mother. Although she liked children very much, she could only leave regrets.
Maybe God couldn't bear it, and in order to compensate her, he arranged an impeccable partner for her.
When filming the TV series "Cold at the end of Blood", she tied the knot with Zhang duo, which was talked about from inside to outside the play, and the play also became a love affair between the two.
Zhang duo is 8 years younger than her, but he is more mature and responsible.
After learning about her illness, she did not leave her, but firmly clasped her hand and accompanied her all the way.
However, their relationship was opposed by Zhang duo's mother.
Zhang duo's mother felt that her son was so excellent that she could have found a better person instead of Chen Songling, who was physically defective.
Zhang duo did not give up Chen Songling because of his mother's preference.
But in 2011 to hold her hand into the marriage, open a new chapter in life.
Chen Songling before marriage could not get along with Zhang duo's mother, but after marriage she could not avoid it and could only try to get her mother-in-law to accept her.
If you have a bad impression of your daughter-in-law before marriage, how can you make a big U-turn after marriage?
After 12 years of suffocating marriage, Chen Songling got the attitude of her mother-in-law and was always indifferent and repulsive.
The atmosphere in which the two get along can only be maintained by Chen Songling's forbearance and Zhang duo's manoeuvre.
This dangerous relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was thoroughly exposed as a result of her participation in the variety show "mother-in-law and mother", and even a complete war broke out.
In the program, Zhang Duo's mother kept praising her son's excellence, as if there was no better person in the world than Zhang Duo.
Even Zhang duo's father could not help but stop Zhang duo's mother's exaggeration.
Whenever Chen Songling takes the initiative to talk to her mother-in-law, she is ignored by her mother-in-law, her eyes are full of disdain, and she even speaks with contempt.
Her mother-in-law turned a blind eye to Chen Songling's efforts to please her.
In front of the camera, they all show people like this, not to mention the more real relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the camera.
Whenever there is tension between the two, Zhang duo will come forward in time to reconcile and come to an end.
When he couldn't solve it, he defended his wife. after all, his mother was aggressive every time.
Seeing that her son is so loyal to the one she loves, Zhang duo's mother can only stop here. She loves her son more and doesn't want to embarrass her son.
Had it not been for Zhang duo's firm protection, the marriage would have fallen apart.
Although there were problems in Chen Songling's relationship with her mother-in-law, she didn't choose the wrong partner.
Having a person who always loves himself firmly is the most valuable harvest.
Conclusion:
Everyone has his own journey, and no one can replace it.
Instead of thinking about taking control of other people's lives, let go of your grievances and try to accept them. Maybe you can feel different happiness.