As one of the models of strong women, Liu Xiaoqing's indomitable life experience is beyond the reach of many women.
She has made remarkable achievements in her acting career, and in her love life, she has been indulging herself and has gone through four marriages.
Of her four marriages, the most dramatic and magnificent one was her two-year marriage to her second husband, Chen Guojun.
In this relationship, they bravely challenged the secular vision, and even Chen Guojun abandoned his family for her.
The marriage ended in divorce after only two years, and sadly, the two even wrote books and attacked each other, leaving no contact with each other for more than a decade.
It was not until 2015 when the two took part in the show that they resolved their bitter feelings with each other, and even Chen Guojun said, "you are the only woman I love with all my heart."
What happened between them? Why did the eldest son he abandoned later become the pride of his life?
Chen Guojun abandoned his wife and children for love.Chen Guojun was born into a military family, and his parents are engaged in military drama performances. In such a family environment, he not only inherited the temperament of the artist, but also cultivated the tenacious character of a soldier.
When he was a child, he took part in a play performance accompanied by his father. His excellent performance won the praise of many people in the troupe. Since then, he has buried a love of art in his heart.
However, his wish did not come true, and during that special period, he was forced to stay in the country for a long time.
When he came back, on the advice of his family, he became a member of the combat company. But it is this experience that gives him a tall image and tough guy temperament that is different from that of ordinary actors.
A director at Changchun Film Studio took a fancy to Chen Guojun in 1975 when he was wandering the streets.
At that time, the troupe happened to need a tall and strong young actor, so he took the initiative to make friends with Chen Guojun and asked him if he would like to take part in the film.
He agreed without hesitation and was willing to follow the director to Changchun Film Studio to start his acting career. This dream, which had been silent for many years, is now possible to come true.
As soon as Changchun arrived, Chen Guojun became a popular target, not only frequently starring in the leading actor in the film, but also won the favor of many unmarried female colleagues, including his first wife Zhao Yamin.
Zhao Yamin and Chen Guojun were admitted to Changchun Film Studio at the same time.
Although she is pure and charming, she can only play a few supporting roles in her acting career, in sharp contrast to the high-profile Chen Guojun. She could not even imagine that Chen Guojun, who was as dazzling as the sun, would have any interest in her.
While Zhao Yamin was hiding his love for Chen Guojun from the bottom of his heart, Chen Guojun couldn't wait to express his love to her because his family urged marriage. As a result, the two quickly became husband and wife, and a few years later they welcomed a lovely son named Chen he.
Zhao Yamin believes that as long as Chen Guojun has a family and children, there will be no other improper ideas, so she devotes more energy to her family.
She is not involved in Chen Guojun's work, but her indulgence is a wake-up call for her marriage.
Chen Guojun fell in love with Liu Xiaoqing at first sightWith the help of Zhao Yamin, he solved his worries and devoted all his energies to filming. He has successively handed over excellent works such as "Medicine" and "the Shadow of the Tiger", which has gradually expanded his reputation.
The production team of "Deep Heart" is full of confidence in his performance, so he is specially invited to participate in the play. When they revealed that Liu Xiaoqing would play the heroine, Chen Guojun even accepted the film without bargaining.
Liu Xiaoqing became a goddess in the eyes of many men in the 1980s, especially because of the popularity of dramas such as "Xiaohua" and "look at the Family", when many families put up posters of her, and Chen Guojun's family was no exception.
After the two met in the crew, the fire of love began to burn quietly, and when they were filming kissing scenes, Chen Guojun showed a strong possessiveness.
Liu Xiaoqing likes his infatuation and handsome appearance very much, so the fire of love between the two people is also slowly burning. After filming, Chen Guojun was so intoxicated that he even divorced his wife in pursuit of Liu Xiaoqing.
Although Zhao Yamin begged him to stay at home more than once, their son Chen he was still young, and many leaders of Changchun Film Studio at that time also came forward to persuade him.
Despite his reputation as a cheating man, Chen Guojun unswervingly insisted on divorce and stay with Liu Xiaoqing.
Zhao Yamin had no choice but to succumb to his request and signed the divorce agreement. However, she insisted on winning custody of her son Chen he, so she planned to leave.
He was soon with Liu Xiaoqing, after his divorce from Zhao Yamin. In order to express his joy in marrying her, he even held a grand wedding.
Because of the affair, Chen Guojun was banned by many film crews, and it was hard to find a part, which prompted him to change careers to become a director.
In the process, Liu Xiaoqing gave him strong support and worked hard to make money everywhere to raise money to support the shooting of his new play "ruthless Lover."
Driven by their joint efforts, Chen Guojun gradually became a director who attracted much attention. Like a tacit understanding couple, they are willing to face the challenges of life together, which makes people full of confidence that their "halfway couple" will move into the future.
Sadly, their marriage ended abruptly two years later, and sadly, they went to court and wrote books to discredit each other.
The breakdown of marriage reveals each other's shortcomings.Liu Xiaoqing suddenly filed for divorce to Chen Guojun in 1990 and asked the court to separate as soon as possible. There are many reasons for their divorce, among which the most widely circulated is Jiang Wen's intervention in the matter.
When Jiang Wen and Liu Xiaoqing worked together to make the film, despite the age difference of 13 years, there were a lot of sparks between the two. They frequently show ambiguous behavior in the crew, and their behavior is becoming more and more out of line.
Their actions were anonymously reported to Chen Guojun by his colleagues on the show. At first, Chen Guojun did not believe it. However, the rest of the crew kept providing him with new clues and found that there were more and more rumors about the affair between the two.
He even happened to witness the two of them when he went to visit the crew, which made him extremely angry and even wanted to die with Liu Xiaoqing. Fortunately, Liu Xiaoqing quickly thought of apologizing to him and succeeded in preventing his extreme behavior.
After stabilizing Chen Guojun, Liu Xiaoqing hurried outside to find someone and said, "Chen Guojun is going to commit suicide." Since then, their marriage has broken up completely and has come to the point of suing for divorce.
The couple used to stick together regardless of secular vision, but in the end they split up in daily chores. It has even developed to an awkward situation where disputes need to be resolved in court, but more embarrassing things are yet to come.
After the divorce, the two originally reached an agreement not to disclose each other's marriage life, but Liu Xiaoqing described Chen Guojun as a violent husband in his book, which attracted a lot of attention.
In order to fight back against his ex-wife, Chen Guojun wrote down "the story that Liu Xiaoqing and I had to tell" in 1997, and recorded her and Jiang Wen in the book.
Since then, the two have not been in touch for 18 years and have never mentioned each other even in an interview with the media.
It was not until a show in 2015 that they finally reached a reconciliation that they had not seen for a long time.
Smile at each other to wipe out grudgesAfter Liu Xiaoqing's divorce, Chen Guojun devoted himself to his career. He successively directed excellent works such as "the woman wading the River of Men" until he met his wife Fu Liyun, 16 years younger than him in 2002, and began a happy marriage life.
In 2015, the feud between him and Liu Xiaoqing was reconciled, and the two met again at the "Star fun Club" of that year. Time has watered down the resentment and dissatisfaction between each other, leaving only clear memories.
Chen Guojun even expressed his love to Liu Xiaoqing affectionately: "you are the only person I love with all my heart." Then the two hugged, symbolically resolved all the past grudges, and realized the realm of vanishing enmity with a smile.
Liu Xiaoqing is now involved in the live streaming industry, causing a live broadcast on January 23, 2024, and her handwriting has attracted a lot of attention.
Before he reconciled with Liu Xiaoqing, he had already reached a settlement with his first wife, Zhao Yamin. He also has a very harmonious relationship with his eldest son Chen he.
In 2020, the two also co-directed "testifying by High Speed Rail," which also received publicity support from Chinese railway officials.
Chen Guojun is very proud of his son's excellent performance, whether in the program or chatting with friends, he is full of pride when he is mentioned.
ConclusionChen Guojun's achievements in the field of film and television works are undoubtedly admirable. He has dabbled in the work of actors and directors, created many excellent works, and trained outstanding directors like Chen he.
Although his three relationships are controversial, they can still be tolerated in today's society. And he and his two ex-wives have reconciled, as the audience, we do not need to struggle too much, we just hope that he and director Chen he can work together to produce excellent works.