Before that, no one would have thought that the first car to turn over in 2024 was Wu Jing, a spoiled wife in the eyes of the public.
The cause was that some netizens turned out the variety clips that he and Xie Nan had participated in in the past, and some details of the relationship between husband and wife in the program made people question Wu Jing's beloved wife.
For example, in "Happiness Trio" broadcast in 2020,
After Wu Jing cooked the noodles, he didn't ask his wife to eat alone. When Xie Nan saw it, he asked, "are you eating?"
But Wu Jing did not seem to hear it when he concentrated on eating noodles and did not give Xie Nan any response. Xie Nan was a little unhappy.
Then Wu Jing finally remembered his wife and asked her: Do you try it?
Xie Nan said: I definitely want to eat.
Wu Jing didn't notice his wife's mood at all, and said: I didn't say you don't eat, ask you if you want to taste it first.
Xie Nan saw Wu Jing didn't realize that it was wrong, clearly said: You should call me when you burn well.
Wu Jing asked her in particular surprise: Didn't you see it?
Xie Nan said that as soon as he looked up, he saw that he had already eaten, and it was a normal conversation here. If Wu Jing said along the steps, "I won't see my wife next time," it will be over. Originally, it was his problem not to yell at people when eating. As a result, when he heard Xie Nan's words, Wu Jing blew up and asked Xie Nan, "are you blaming me?" Did you just pick me and not call you?
Even Xie Nan is still gently putting forward his request at this time, saying that he has not complained, but you can call his wife for dinner.
But Wu Jing was still angry. He went upstairs alone and slammed the towel in the bathroom to vent his feelings.
His expression was so fierce that netizens couldn't help but complain. This wasn't the expression of looking at his wife, was it an enemy?
There is another clip, which is similar.
The husband and wife played the game of "draw and guess". No matter how Xie Nan prompted Wu Jing, he could not guess the answer. Xie Nan said,"No, you are too slow." Wu Jing's expression immediately changed.
After that, the game always lost to Wu Jing and took advantage of the title to play all the blame on Xie Nan, who was directly angry and cried.
Netizens also picked out the fragments of the two people getting along with each other in the early variety show, which is also suffocating.
At that time, when the couple were going to cook for the big guy in the program, Wu Jing wanted to show that he had a large intestine. Xie Nan reminded him, "it's necessary to cook for a while, so that other people won't have a bad stomach." It was obviously a normal reminder, but I didn't know which nerve Wu Jing had poked. He suddenly became grumpy, saying that Xie Nan couldn't do anything, and told her to stop being so garrulous.
Xie Nan was particularly aggrieved and began to reflect on herself. She felt that what she had done was not good enough.
The rapid spread of these clips through the short video platform, netizens began to criticize Wu Jing before and after marriage, not only male chauvinism, but also suspected of domestic violence
Many people went directly to Xie Nan's Weibo to persuade for divorce.Just when the couple's relationship was questioned, Xie Nan responded, saying that Mr. Wu was nervous recently for fear that he would not live with him. He also clarified for Wu Jing that he did not hate women, did not respect women, and did not love his wife. The variety scenes that people saw were not all of their lives, and their lives were not black and white. They loved each other enough, but they could not avoid quarrels.
This response is actually quite sincere. Although she will still be scolded for her wife and love brain, May feels that it is biased to beat a person to death just by editing some clips in the video. In fact, if you have seen the variety shows of husband and wife, you will find that Wu Jing is not just grumpy and male chauvinist, as shown in the short video. Xie Nan once came home from work, only sent a few words to Wu Jing, said home, fell asleep.Wu Jing immediately called her, worried about whether she was in a bad mood, "I'm afraid you have something to say, but no one listens."In those deliberately edited videos, it seems that Xie Nan is always giving in, but in fact, when the husband and wife quarrel, Wu Jing slips on his knees and apologizes many times. After the quarrel takes Xie Nanqi away, he will take the initiative to write a review to coax her. The registration office is: check the person, the husband who always loves you.Including the aforementioned part where Wu Jing played games and made people cry.Wu Jing later realized that he had made a mistake and apologized to Xie Nan that he had failed to control his emotions.After the cold war, Wu Jing will also choose to return to the table, calmly communicate with Xie Nan.
In the program, Wu Jing said that noodles are too sweet and don't like sweet ones.Seeing that Xie Nan was a little unhappy, Wu Jing immediately put down his chopsticks and coaxed his wife, saying "delicious" and accompanied by a bossy general kiss.Xie Nan once praised Wu Jing for being good at admitting mistakes. "although he may want to pinch him one second, he wants to kiss him the next."Wu Jing's reputation for turning over is nothing more than the fact that the straight man's impatient and grumpy side is infinitely magnified, but in fact, husband and wife don't just get along with each other.They are also really sweet when they are sweet, and they have to play role-playing play when they drink medicine every day.
Xie Nan: "Dalang, drink medicine".
Wu Jing: "Jinlian, all my silver is yours."
Although he does have some male chauvinism in his daily life, he privately supports his wife's career and believes that women should not narrow their horizons and knowledge intake.
Although Wu Jing may not be a perfect husband, he has never been a grumpy man who only loses his temper at Xie Nan, and May has no intention of washing Wu Jing. She just wants to say that in any relationship, there will not be only sweetness and beauty, and there will be no friction and quarrel.
What kind of person Wu Jing is? I believe Xie Nan must know better than us, so spectators don't have to worry about persuading people to divorce.
What do you think?