The word "suicide" comes from the Biography of the birth of the King of Southern History, in which there is a sentence: "subjects are lucky to be holy, reserved according to the Tao, magnificent things to code, relatives to the public, the minister's contempt, can commit suicide." Since then, there has been the word "suicide".
As we all know, there is only one life. Human life is precious. Once you choose to commit suicide, you will leave this world forever. So why do people choose to commit suicide?
According to a psychologist, there are many reasons why people choose to commit suicide, but the most common reasons are:
First, ambivalence
We all know that life is not easy, as long as a person is alive, he will face many difficulties, but some difficulties are difficult to solve by himself. Under such circumstances, some people who encounter difficulties want someone to help him solve them. However, these people do not want to ask for help, which makes them have a contradictory mentality, and driven by the contradictory mentality, they will think of relief. And suicide is a way of relief.
Second, cognitive bias
After research, it is found that those who attempt suicide will have cognitive biases, and once they have cognitive biases, they will have cognitive distortions due to mood swings, and when they have cognitive distortions, they will give up, blame themselves, hurt themselves and destroy themselves.
Third, impulsive psychology
As the saying goes, impulse is the devil! Some people are very easy to lead to impulsive psychology because of their emotional excitement, and under the influence of impulsive psychology, they will feel that "there is no point in living", so they will choose to commit suicide because of impulse.
Fourth, relationship imbalance.
Due to personality reasons, it is difficult for some people to establish normal relationships with others, and in this case, these people will appear very withdrawn, and once they lack the warmth and love of their family, they will feel helpless. in the end, they will become more and more alone, and in the case of loneliness, they will take the road of suicide.
The psychologist went on to say that, of course, financial reasons and bereavement can all cause a person to commit suicide.
The psychologist went on to say that in short, there are many reasons for choosing suicide, and suicide is very difficult to intervene.
In fact, what the psychologist said is very reasonable. According to media reports on Feb. 3, 58-year-old former TVB foreign actor he Guorong committed suicide.
So, what on earth is going on?
Next, let's talk about it.
EventOn February 3rd, a report quickly went viral. He Guorong, a 58-year-old former TVB foreign actor, was found to have committed suicide by burning charcoal in a house in Tai au Mun Village in Hong Kong on the evening of Feb. 2, the report said.
So, who is he Guorong?
It is reported that he Guorong, who was born in 1965, was originally an Australian. He came to Hong Kong in 1988 and now lives in Hong Kong.
He Guorong's original name was Gregory Charles Rivers. Because he loved Leslie Cheung, he gave himself a Chinese name: He Guorong.
Although he is Australian, he speaks fluent Cantonese. After arriving in Hong Kong, he signed up for Hong Kong TVB to appear in about 300 TVB TV dramas in which he often played the roles of consul, lawyer, superintendent, priest and missionary. Because of his excellent acting skills, he was loved by the audience.
However, for some reason, he Guorong left TVB in 2008 to become an artist under Shaw Brothers. But in 2023, it was reported that he Guorong had transferred to a new brokerage firm.
Insiders revealed that despite his excellent acting skills, he didn't make much money in the entertainment industry, and it's not too much to describe him as destitute. As he can't afford to buy a house, he still lives in a village house. Perhaps because the pressure of life is too great, so a few years ago, he suffered from depression, but after treatment, his depression has improved, in normal times, no one thinks that he is depressed.
Insiders revealed that three months ago, he Guorong's beloved wife died of illness. The unfortunate death of his wife brought a great spiritual blow to he Guorong. His mood once fell to the extreme and looked very pessimistic. As his pessimism could not be relieved, he left the world by burning charcoal to commit suicide.
The above is a rough process of this incident.
When many netizens learned about the incident, netizens launched a heated discussion one after another.
The voice of netizensNetizens' years are like songs: he Guorong is too difficult! After struggling all my life, I didn't earn much money, and I struggled with the hardship of life all my life. No matter who I put on this kind of life, it will inevitably collapse.
Netizens' story of spring: after acting in so many TV dramas, now they are still down and out, poor ah!
In short, there are a lot of comments from netizens.
Lao Hu's viewpointLife is an ordeal! Some people say that we come to this world not to enjoy happiness, but to suffer. Although this statement is biased, it seems to be true for us ordinary people.
However, Lao Hu believes that even though it is difficult for us ordinary people to live, we must be strong enough to live. We must never easily choose to commit suicide. After all, our lives are given by our parents, and we have no right to end our lives at will. Although there is a long way to go, we have to grit our teeth until the natural end of life.
Finally, we can only say: he Guorong, go well all the way!