There is an old Chinese saying that a loving mother is a loser.
It means that mothers are too kind and tend to spoil their children and often spoil the black sheep.
Similarly, if in a family
Fathers can only dote on their children when they discipline them.
It's hard for a child to become a talent.
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In Zhu Lou Village, Guocun Town, Dan County, Heze County, Shandong Province, a big brother came out.
Brother Da Yi was formerly known as Zhu Zhiwen.
He used to be an ordinary farmer in Zhulou village.
An accidental opportunity
He participated in the local talent show in Heze.
With the song "Rolling the East of the Yangtze River", it became popular all over the country.
It is said that he has hundreds of performances every year.
Performance fees range from tens of thousands of yuan to more than a hundred thousand yuan.
He deposited 16 million yuan in the bank in his first year of fame.
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Dad became the grassroots singer loved by the people all over the country.
The future of Zhu Xiaowei and Zhu Xuemei is inestimable
As long as Brother Da Yi makes careful arrangements for them.
like going to school.
Such as opening a shop and doing business.
Like being an assistant by your side.
You can live a lot better than other rural children
But more than a decade later,
All we see in these siblings is fat and ignorance.
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Especially Zhu Xiaowei, the son of Brother Coat.
In his early 20s, he has already had two marriages
The first marriage lasted less than a year and ended on the grounds that the woman rejected the man.
The second marriage lasted more than a year
Although there is no divorce scandal so far.
But the woman's belly never bulged.
Why emphasize the fact that the woman is pregnant?
there are two reasons
First, in rural areas, children will be born in the first year of marriage.
Because up to now, rural people still adhere to the order of getting married and starting a career.
It seems that with children, the marriage can be stable and the career can be developed.
Second, brother Da Yi is eager to be a grandfather as soon as possible.
According to Zhu Xiaowei's comprehensive strength
Let him surpass his father.
is obviously impossible
He is introverted, talks to people and has a limited level of education.
Instead of wasting energy on a career
It's better to have children early and raise the next generation
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Chen Meng, the second wife of Zhu Xiaowei
Why don't you have a baby for so long?
In fact, she thinks the same as Chen Yanan (Zhu Xiaowei's first wife).
I hope my husband can grow up and be on his own.
The result of giving birth rashly is not that the mother is expensive.
It is reduced to a reproductive tool.
From this angle
Today, Zhu Xiaowei has not yet become the "man" in her heart.
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Why can't Zhu Xiaowei grow up?
Just because of low education and introversion?
Obviously not!
This can be seen from the strange tutoring of brother and wife in coat.
First of all, Brother Da Yi
After Zhu Xiaowei and Chen Yanan separated
Brother Da Yi took his son to the city to buy clothes.
A big young man in his early twenties
Economic independence is long overdue.
The reality is: from picking clothes to paying for it, and then going to the barber's to get a haircut.
It's all in charge of the big coat.
He's like a teenager.
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The second is sister-in-law in clothes.
Near the end of the year, Zhu Xiaowei went home for the Spring Festival
When visiting relatives, the coat sister-in-law prepared a sack of walnuts.
As a son, Zhu Xiaowei, who is more than 180 tall and well-built,
Should have snatched the sack from mom.
How did it turn out? Mom did it the whole time, and he was like an outsider.
As can be seen from this detail:
Mother did not treat Zhu Xiaowei as an adult, and did not want him to suffer.
The children of the poor are in charge at an early age
This sentence is reasonable.
Because children from poor families know more about independence and love for adults.
Brother coat is rich, and coat sister-in-law is also a local Internet celebrity in Shandong.
But they don't know how to educate their children.
Go on at the current pace
The marriage between Chen Meng and Zhu Xiaowei will not last.