Behind the glamorous entertainment industry, there are always hidden some unknown sadness. Recently, shocking news came that 43-year-old well-known host Xie Na was diagnosed with "depression". Once a sunny and cheerful image deeply rooted in her heart, after the second child, her temperament changed greatly, as if a different person.
All kinds of negative comments poured in like a flood, and she gradually lost herself under the pressure of public opinion. What on earth is going on? Why did Xie Na, who was once full of vitality, fall into the haze of depression? What unknown story has happened in her life?
Xie Na's depression and self-redemption
In the limelight, Xie Na is always the one with the brightest smile. But in the variety show "our good Life", she uncovered the dark days of depression after giving birth to her second child for the first time.
Once, she was like a frightened bird, and every disturbance in life could make her palpitate endlessly. Irritability and insomnia became the norm in her days. What caused her to completely collapse was actually a seemingly insignificant matter.
The big paintbrush for her daughter was the sweet secret between her and Zhang Jie. But when Zhang Jie inadvertently leaked the surprise, Xie Na's heart seemed to be hit hard. She felt that all her efforts had come to naught, and her tears could not stop flowing.
At that moment, she suddenly realized that something was wrong with her. So she went into the doctor's office with doubts. When the word "postpartum depression" came out of the doctor's mouth, Xie Na's heart sank to the bottom. She knows that this is a common but extremely dangerous mental illness among pregnant women.
During that time, the suspension of Happy Camp seemed to press the pause button for her life. She chose to rest at home, but the haze in her heart never went away.
Until one day, a phone call from he Jiong made her find the color of life again. At the recording scene of "Please listen, Friends", Xie Na once again felt the happiness she had not seen for a long time.
The pistachios on the stage, the tears behind
In the emotional program "Please listen, Friends", Xie Na, as a listener, witnessed the happiness and suffering in the world. She heard the inner voices of ordinary people from all over the world, and their stories and their feelings deeply touched Xie Na's heart. It is in these true stories that Xie Na found the power to heal herself.
However, as a public figure, Xie Na also has to face negative comments from all sides. These comments, like invisible knives, went deep into her heart. However, Xie Na was not defeated by these, she chose to face it bravely and respond to these questions and criticisms in her own way.
Xie Na is always the most active and funny person on the stage. With her enthusiasm and vitality, she brought countless joys to the audience.
However, few people know that Xie Na felt timid and timid in the face of these big scenes. However, in order to live and dream, she had to put on a bold, funny, fearless skin to meet every challenge.
However, it is difficult to tune. Although Xie Na worked hard to liven up the atmosphere on the stage, some netizens questioned her as "too exaggerated" and even said she was a little haughty. In the face of these bad reviews, Xie Na did not choose to escape, but confessed her feelings on the program.
She knows that as a public figure, she must bear these doubts and criticisms. However, she was not defeated, but strengthened her faith and determination.
Controversy and Truth behind laughter
Netizens have listed some unpopular things about Xie Na, which makes people wonder: has Xie Na, who always makes us laugh, really changed?
Speaking of "stingy search double label", these two words seem to have become labels on Xie Na. More than one person has expressed Xie Na's stinginess in the entertainment circle. Yang Di once revealed on a program that he took gifts to visit Xie Na, who had just given birth, and was rolled his eyes because he brought a basket of pecans.
For those guests who sent expensive gifts, Xie Na greeted them with a smile. Is this a joke or is it true? Maybe only Sheena knows that.
But in "wife's Romantic Journey", Xie Na's "stingy" image seems to have been further confirmed. At that time, she had to borrow money for shopping because she didn't bring her wallet. Her good friend Bao Wenjing did not hesitate to lend it to her. However, when repaying the money, Xie Na used the same amount of RMB to pay back, knowing that an Australian dollar was equivalent to 4.7 yuan at that time.
In the face of Bao Wenjing's reminder, Xie Na just smiled awkwardly and even said "care too much." This kind of behavior makes people wonder whether she really regards her friend as a "bad head".
However, when others owe Xie Na money, she has a different attitude. Direct post naming and criticism, such double-label behavior also made many viewers question her. Is this the so-called "only state officials are allowed to set fires, but people are not allowed to light lamps"?
In addition to "picking and searching double marks", Xie Na's performance in "yearning for Life" is also surprising. On the bus to the mushroom house, she joked that "the mushroom house has changed ownership and demolished the house."
I thought it was just a joke, but no one thought that when she arrived, she actually crossed out the word "mushroom house" on the sign and changed it to "Xie Zhai". Such behavior is undoubtedly a disrespect for others, but also makes people question her quality.
Xie Na's various actions have made her wind rating continue to decline. But looking back on her former glory, Xie Na, who always brings us laughter, has really changed? Perhaps, as Huang Lei said, "your life experience is too shallow." In the big dye vat of the entertainment industry, Xie Na needs more experience and growth.
But in any case, we all hope that Xie Na, who always makes us laugh, can find herself as soon as possible. After all, in this complex world, sincerity and kindness are the most precious qualities.